The longest conversation I ever had while sex chatting occurred about three months ago. It was an incredibly enjoyable and stimulating experience.
Although I had been engaged in sex chatting for some time, it was the first time I had engaged in such in-depth dialogue. We were both quite open and comfortable with one another, allowing for an honest and often passionate exchange of ideas and fantasies. We started out discussing our past experiences, fantasies and curiosities. We agreed upon what kind of activities we both found arousing, enhancing our pleasure. It was a very exciting conversation as we explored and shared with each other our desires and interests.
We then went on to talk about our current desires and what we wanted to do in the present. We discussed the different kinds of pleasure we could find in a specific situation. We both had the same ideas and shared our visions and creative solutions. We both saw the same type of potential and excitement and tried to explore each other’s fantasies to the best of our abilities.
We talked for hours about our ideas and desires and potential issues. We agreed on some ground rules that allowed us both to feel comfortable and secure during the conversation. We shared our thoughts about different activities and discussed ways to make them more pleasurable and enjoyable. We discussed certain kinks, or activities, that we were interested in, both separately and together, which led to some interesting conversations.
The conversation soon moved away from our fantasies and desires, and we started to talk about life, ourselves, and relationships. We shared our views and ideas on certain topics and it allowed us to connect on a deeper level. I felt as if I had connected with someone who I would have never had the pleasure of meeting in person, and we both felt incredibly comfortable and accepted.
We continued talking for hours, even into the early morning. We shared stories about our lives, discussed different topics, and, overall, it was an incredible experience. It was a conversation I cherished and one that I will never forget. Original source.
What tips does Mistress Eva offer to newcomers to the BDSM scene?
As an experienced Mistress and BDSM practitioner, I am often asked for advice by newbies who want to enter the scene. This is a perfectly natural thing and I always welcome newcomers as I can remember what it was like to be a newbie myself not too long ago. That being said, there are a number of tips I always offer to ensure newcomers to the scene can make the most out of the BDSM experience.
The first tip I have for newcomers is to do your research. It is incredibly important to take the time to read and understand the different aspects of BDSM and its culture. A thorough knowledge of the terminology and protocols will help newcomers fit in more easily and respect known rules and expectations.
Secondly, it is crucial to never forget the “safe, sane and consensual motto, and to never enter into any activity that falls outside of the boundaries of what is considered safe, sane, and consensual BDSM. This ensures that all involved will stay safe and that trust and understanding between all should be established before any activity is agreed to by all involved.
Thirdly, for any newcomers who are lucky enough to be in a relationship or otherwise engage with an experienced partner, I implore them to remember the importance of communication. Take the time to talk through the activities that you as a newcomer are interested in and also ensure that your partner knows exactly what you do not want to take part in. Proper communication prior to any activity is vital for both of you to fully enjoy your time in the BDSM scene.
Finally, newcomers should never feel pressured to take part in activities simply because they feel they should. Take the time to explore the scene and take part in activities that genuinely interest you and that you are comfortable with. That being said, do not be afraid to try new things – as long as they are within the bounds of safe, sane, and consensual BDSM!
All in all, I hope these tips are useful to any newcomers looking to get started in the BDSM scene. Remember, wherever you go and whatever you do, be safe, informed, and confident in yourself.